Navigating Birth Family Relationships

Navigating relationships with a child's original birth family or relatives can be nerve-wracking, heart-breaking and complicated, yet also poignant and beautiful. Children, once grown, often voice that staying connected to these family members is beyond meaningful, even if painful and disappointing. Nothing can take the place of knowing one's roots, identity and culture. Our job (which is tough!) is to support and keep them safe as they seek out and explore this connection. Please also reference our Adoptee & Foster Voices, Grandparent/Relative/Kinship, Siblings, and Transracial Parenting pages for more resources.

"Regardless of how you feel, the most important part of talking to your child about his or her birth parents is LISTENING." ~Dr. Chaitra Wirta-Leiker

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Openness-related Materials in ORPARC's library and DIGITAL library, including Openness Information Packet developed by ORPARC

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